It’s been said you should be friends before you are lovers. I’ve gone both ways with my four lovers; while not always true, it was true when it counted. One such exchange preceded the start of my 46-year marriage.
Thinking about those affairs, I realized the epistolary exchanges enhanced the relationships. Two exchanages came before the affair; two were mid-affair. All of them allowed me to know the woman’s mind better. Which is important for a Sapiosexual.
I’ve been asked how Vicki and I managed to keep our love alive during our 16-month separation, a question I answered in my song Long Distance Love.
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